Do Guys Want Their Sex on A Platter?

So I get my cup of coffee this rainy Saturday morning. Make myself some warm oatmeal, snuggle up with my computer & start checking my email. I sign into my yahoo messenger see who's online, a few people since it is the weekend. Then the little messenger pops up on my screen & makes that blup noise. It's the Beer Man. The beer man is a guy who drives a beer truck. Interesting profession. Though he looks kind of cute & harmless from his profile. We chatted a few times. Looks like a regular mans man if you will. No problem with having one of those around. We were supposed to go out to dinner before, but plans feel through. So we will chat and see how he's doing. It's been a couple of weeks.

So I send Beer Man a reply. We have a nice chat for about 10 minutes. Then I go get another cup of coffee, come back & he sends me a message," I need a woman." Ok, that's nice.

I reply back, "What for?"

Beer Man, "To spend time with & a little naughty play" Ok, so I haven't even met this guy & he is all ready pushing towards sex? Nice...I mean come on... what happened to foreplay? I'm sorry but stroking a few keys on the keyboard does not constitute as foreplay on the Internet. Just because your picture looks half way decent on your profile does not mean that you even look that way in real life. Who knows you could of gained 30 lbs & lost all of your hair. Beer Man,"You ok with that?"

Beating around the bush,"ok with what?" trying to avoid what he just obviously threw out there in black & white on the IM window.

Beer Man,"With naughty play." Um no. no. NO! What is wrong with men or this guy? Does he think that he he can just ask for sex over the Internet & he's going to get it? Maybe if my profile header was HORNY SLUT LOOKING FOR ACTION. Though it's not. Again may I add, we have NEVER met in person? What ever happened to gee, let me take you out to dinner, buy you a drink & then maybe try to get into your pants. I mean at least those guys have some game plan. It's like guys these days guys do not even want to do their part of the date. They do not want to have to pursue the woman. They just want their sex put out on a platter. They want it known before they even meet you that you are going to have sex with them. What is wrong with guys today? What happened to guys buying flowers, wooing girls, chivalry? Has everyone's morals & values just gotten washed down the toilet? Seriously? I'm sorry but if you ask a woman for sex before you even meet her, you don't have a shot. That is with a decent woman. If she says yes, then you got yourself a whore & more power to you. Though if you are looking for that kind of date go to the WHORE personals! So Beer Man keep on trucking.

2-3-07

Hello to the wonderful world of blogging! This is my first blog ever, even though I know it's been out for forever. I thought I would share my online dating experiences with the world. For those of who watched Sex & the City, which we all did :) I thought it was funny that they never touched on the subject of online dating since it has been out there for a long time. In this new technology age of people telecommuting, having their minds lost in their ipods & their conversations so loud on their cell phone everyone can hear them in Super Target, I'm just surprised. Anyway, here is how the real world is when it comes to dating online. The good, the bad & the ugly ~